Welcome to Friday the 17th of February and the 48th Day of 2023. Today, we are looking at 6 WAYS TO TELL IF A GUY ONLY WANTS SEX & NOT A RELATIONSHIP.
Sex is a subject that is widely known but rarely talked about and most people will never admit that all they really want is to get down with you and not to keep you for life. Especially in this current world of social media where exposure is being normalized and sex is heavily commercialized for likes, followers and subscriptions.
Women unlike men want commitment, something stable and reliable and if it happens that they want to have sex with a guy they fancy, they won’t go the route of trying to date him and complicate things afterwards, they probably will just ask. I wonder how a woman will feel though if a man just asked for sex and not try to date her to get it?
Anyway, these are 5 tell tale signs;
1. HE COMPLIMENTS YOUR BODY A LOT – Most men are moved by what they see and it is normal for them to compliment you every now and then but if it gets overwhelming, he probably isn’t thinking relationship but sex and using relationship as a means to get it and to keep getting it.
2. HE STARES AT YOU WITH LUST – You can see the lust in his eyes when he looks at you which happens often. He is always caught staring and fantasizing at every encounter. There are ways that men look at you that you will know he is adoring you verses when he is undressing you.
3. HE IS VERY TOUCHY & FLIRTHY – Of course he wants to do it so it shows in how often he touches you and flirts with you with his eyes, lips, words and body language. Reaching out for kisses and and hugging often even in public disguised as PDA.
4. HE IS ALWAYS INVITING YOU INDOORS – Netflix and chill invitations, preparing dinner invitations, come let’s talk invitations, come see me, visit me and let’s grab a night cup invitations become frequent and persistent.
5. HE TALKS ABOUT FANTASIES & SEXUAL EXPLOITS A LOT – So tell me about your craziest thoughts, what are your fantasies, have you imagined doing it here or there, where is the craziest place you’ve ever done it… all questions a guy in pursuit of sex will bring up often.
6. HE CHANGES AFTER SEX – Men can pretend a lot and for a very long time, even for years, when they have their mind set on something they want to accomplish. So they will dance to your tune, please you in every way, fulfill your demands and even be the perfect gentleman until the deed happens.
Afterwards, his mission has been accomplished and does not need to put in that much effort trying to please you any longer. Unless, it was so good he wants to keep having it. In that case, you will notice that the relationship never advances beyond sex.
Sis, how would you feel if men approached you with their true intentions of just wanting to have sex and not date? Would you be offended, feel disrespected or appreciate his honesty and respond without hostility?
Personally I feel a lot of heart breaks will be avoided if there was a safe avenue to be sincere and not play games.
Well, that’s my take, what’s yours?