Welcome to 6th January and the 6th Day of 2023. Hope your week has been productive so far?
Today is Friday, so we are going to get a little emotional and talk about relationships specifically on the Topic: 3 Benefits of Falling in Love and Being Truly Loved.
One of the most indispensable facts of life is the need for relationships and companionship. No one is an island even though some try so hard to be to avoid being hurt.
Even using the phrase ‘falling in love’ is risky these days since many a people have resolved not to make the mistake of ever falling in love with anyone because of their experiences and horrifying stories they’ve heard of how others have been abused who merely wanted to love and be loved.
It is baffling that those who genuinely love openheartedly are sometimes the ones who are badly hurt, betrayed and abused. So one may ask if there is even a point in pursing love and relationships.
I know quite a number of people that have given up on love and resolved to be alone or give birth and take care of their children and have their peace of mind. As easy as that sounds, trust me, it can not be compared to being with someone you love, who loves you and is there for you always.
So, what are the 3 benefits of falling in love and being truly loved?
1. Your world becomes light: Life is full of challenges and set backs and knowing you don’t have to go through them alone is comforting. Not having to carry your burden alone but having someone to reason with, to hug, to encourage you, to pray with you, to hold your hands, to give you a shoulder to cry on and to cheer you on to victory; eases your burden and makes your world truly light.
2. Your Health Improves: Just as heartbreaks, breaks you down and has a negative emotional and health effect on you, so does love improve your health. Just imagine waking up in the morning with a smile because you’ve been blessed with someone who loves you, values you, respects you, cherishes you, cares about you and makes you happy.
Just imagine going through the day knowing that some one is thinking about you, yearning to see you, rooting for you and is happy to have you in their life; it relieves you of stress, anxiety, depression, worry, heartaches and so many health issues. Love is therapeutic indeed.
3. Your Vision & Focus Improves: When you truly fall in love and feel loved; all you mostly want to do is to impress this person you are with. To care for them, to show them they made the right choice, to let them be proud of you and to be there for them emotionally and financially. As such, your vision and focus improves knowing that you are not just responsible for yourself now but you have someone to take care of and be there for.
When you find the right one, everything about you reflects that. Your dreams become more vivid, your execution becomes more accurate, your problems find solutions, your relationship with others improve, even your prayers get answered and you obtain favour with God.
Love is everything! John C. Maxwell once said, everything rises and falls on leadership. I respectfully disagree. Everything rises and falls on love that is true, one that holds no grudges, one that genuinely cares, one that is not selfish, one that is not vindictive, love that is kind, warm and gentle; love that gives and love that respects.
Are you in love and are you truly loved? Do you agree with me?
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